Proactive Couples Therapy & Premarital Counselling

Proactive Couples Therapy & Premarital Counselling

Proactive Couples Therapy & Premarital Counselling

Nurturing Bonds, Creating Futures: Your Journey to Lasting Connection Starts Here with Proactive Couples Therapy and Premarital Counselling.

Proactive couples therapy involves taking a preventative approach, and addressing potential challenges before they become major issues. Through tailored sessions, couples gain valuable insights into effective communication, conflict resolution, and strategies for fostering emotional and physical intimacy.

Who Is Proactive and Premarital Couples Therapy For?

In proactive and premarital counselling, my goal is to equip couples with the tools they need for a successful relationship. Together, we explore each partner’s values, expectations, and communication styles, ensuring a deep understanding that forms the basis of a resilient and thriving relationship. Let’s further explore who this service is for.

Premarital counselling is ideal for those planning to get married. It provides an opportunity to explore and understand each other’s expectations, values, and communication styles, setting a solid foundation for a successful marriage.
Proactive couples therapy is beneficial for newlyweds seeking to strengthen their connection. It offers a supportive space to address any initial challenges, enhance communication skills, and navigate the early stages of marriage with confidence.
Proactive couples therapy is for those who recognize the importance of addressing potential issues before they escalate. It’s a proactive step towards building resilience, improving communication, and fostering a deeper emotional connection.
Proactive and premarital counselling is suitable for individuals considering a long-term commitment, such as moving in together or planning a future together. These sessions provide valuable insights and tools to navigate the complexities of a committed relationship.
Proactive and premarital couples therapy is for individuals and couples committed to investing in the health and longevity of their relationship. It’s an opportunity to deepen understanding, enhance communication, and foster a loving and lasting connection.

Maha Elias Couples Counsellor, Victoria BC

Registered Clinical Counselor (RCC)

Comprehensive Family Mediator (FMC)

Canadian Certified Counselor (CCC)

As a dedicated couple’s therapist who is deeply invested in my personal growth and development, I bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to guide couples through relationship challenges. My genuine passion for helping couples build strong, loving connections stems from both my personal journey and extensive work with diverse clients. Recognizing the uniqueness of every relationship, I tailor my approach to address individual needs, desires, and differences. With a commitment to ongoing effort and dedication, I am here to support you in fostering a fulfilling and long-lasting relationship.

Maha Elias Couples Counsellor, Victoria BC

Registered Clinical Counselor (RCC)

Comprehensive Family Mediator (FMC)

Canadian Certified Counselor (CCC)

As a dedicated couple’s therapist who is deeply invested in my personal growth and development, I bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to guide couples through relationship challenges. My genuine passion for helping couples build strong, loving connections stems from both my personal journey and extensive work with diverse clients. Recognizing the uniqueness of every relationship, I tailor my approach to address individual needs, desires, and differences. With a commitment to ongoing effort and dedication, I am here to support you in fostering a fulfilling and long-lasting relationship.

As a dedicated couple’s therapist who is deeply invested in my personal growth and development, I bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to guide couples through relationship challenges. My genuine passion for helping couples build strong, loving connections stems from both my personal journey and extensive work with diverse clients. Recognizing the uniqueness of every relationship, I tailor my approach to address individual needs, desires, and differences. With a commitment to ongoing effort and dedication, I am here to support you in fostering a fulfilling and long-lasting relationship.

Guiding You with Expertise and Compassionate Care.

As a dedicated therapist, I am committed to guiding couples on a transformative journey that builds a strong foundation for lasting love and deeper connection. I bring a wealth of specialized training and diverse therapeutic modalities to our sessions. My approach is tailored to meet the unique needs of your relationship. Let’s explore some of the tools and techniques designed to foster understanding, healing, and growth in your journey together.

BPDM: Balancing Self and Togetherness in Intimate Relationships

The Bader-Pearson Developmental Model (BPDM) is a couples therapy approach by Drs. Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson. It emphasizes differentiation, the ability to maintain individual identity while being emotionally connected to a partner. This involves nurturing one’s own identity, values, and beliefs alongside emotional intimacy with a partner. The BPDM aims to help couples respect each other’s individuality, balancing independence and togetherness. It encourages navigating challenges and conflicts through a developmental lens, promoting both individual and relational well-being.

Strengthening Bonds with the Gottman Method

The Gottman Method, an evidence-based couples therapy developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, enhances relationships by building friendship, managing conflict, and fostering shared meaning. It focuses on improving communication skills, emotional intimacy, and constructive conflict resolution strategies. The method identifies harmful patterns, such as the “Four Horsemen” (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling), and provides interventions to replace these with positive interactions. Overall, the Gottman Method equips couples with practical tools and skills for lasting, fulfilling relationships.

Healing Together with Trauma-Informed Care

Trauma-Informed Therapy provides a compassionate and secure setting for couples to address and heal from traumatic experiences. This approach is informed by the impact of past traumas, emphasizing understanding, empathy, and the rebuilding of trust. It stresses the importance of effective communication and mutual support, guiding couples to fortify their connection while recognizing and respecting each partner’s individual trauma history. The objective is to cultivate deeper comprehension and resilience within the relationship, enabling both partners to advance with greater confidence and unity.

Expert Family Mediation for Harmonious Resolutions

Leveraging my extensive background in family mediation, I seamlessly incorporate conflict resolution and management principles into couples counselling. This enables me to adeptly assist clients in navigating and managing conflicts, fostering healthier communication. My goal is to empower couples to navigate disagreements with greater understanding and empathy, ultimately transforming conflicts into opportunities for developing and enriching their relationship.

Enhancing Intimacy: Navigating Sexual Health in Relationships

My expertise in sexual intimacy and health within couple therapy delves into sensitive issues that may affect your physical connection and intimacy. This specialized aspect of therapy not only concentrates on refining communication regarding sexual needs, desires, and challenges but also extends to addressing broader issues such as intimacy enhancement, navigating sexual concerns, and fostering a deeper understanding of each partner’s unique experiences and perspectives. This comprehensive approach aims to provide a supportive space for couples to explore and enhance various facets of their sexual well-being, fostering a more fulfilling and connected relationship.
BPDM: Balancing Self and Togetherness in Intimate Relationships

 

The Bader-Pearson Developmental Model (BPDM) is a couples therapy approach by Drs. Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson. It emphasizes differentiation, the ability to maintain individual identity while being emotionally connected to a partner. This involves nurturing one’s own identity, values, and beliefs alongside emotional intimacy with a partner. The BPDM aims to help couples respect each other’s individuality, balancing independence and togetherness. It encourages navigating challenges and conflicts through a developmental lens, promoting both individual and relational well-being.

Strengthening Bonds with the Gottman Method

 

The Gottman Method, an evidence-based couples therapy developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, enhances relationships by building friendship, managing conflict, and fostering shared meaning. It focuses on improving communication skills, emotional intimacy, and constructive conflict resolution strategies. The method identifies harmful patterns, such as the “Four Horsemen” (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling), and provides interventions to replace these with positive interactions. Overall, the Gottman Method equips couples with practical tools and skills for lasting, fulfilling relationships.

Healing Together with Trauma-Informed Care

 

Trauma-Informed Therapy provides a compassionate and secure setting for couples to address and heal from traumatic experiences. This approach is informed by the impact of past traumas, emphasizing understanding, empathy, and the rebuilding of trust. It stresses the importance of effective communication and mutual support, guiding couples to fortify their connection while recognizing and respecting each partner’s individual trauma history. The objective is to cultivate deeper comprehension and resilience within the relationship, enabling both partners to advance with greater confidence and unity.

Expert Family Mediation for Harmonious Resolutions

 

Leveraging my extensive background in family mediation, I seamlessly incorporate conflict resolution and management principles into couples counselling. This enables me to adeptly assist clients in navigating and managing conflicts, fostering healthier communication. My goal is to empower couples to navigate disagreements with greater understanding and empathy, ultimately transforming conflicts into opportunities for developing and enriching their relationship.

Enhancing Intimacy: Navigating Sexual Health in Relationships

 

My expertise in sexual intimacy and health within couple therapy delves into sensitive issues that may affect your physical connection and intimacy. This specialized aspect of therapy not only concentrates on refining communication regarding sexual needs, desires, and challenges but also extends to addressing broader issues such as intimacy enhancement, navigating sexual concerns, and fostering a deeper understanding of each partner’s unique experiences and perspectives. This comprehensive approach aims to provide a supportive space for couples to explore and enhance various facets of their sexual well-being, fostering a more fulfilling and connected relationship.

Discover the transformative power of proactive and premarital couples therapy

Empower your relationship with the transformative benefits of proactive and premarital couples therapy. This approach offers couples the tools to navigate challenges, strengthen communication, and deepen emotional intimacy. Let’s further explore the positive transformations you can anticipate.

Early Intervention for Lasting Solutions

Proactive couples therapy allows for early identification and resolution of potential issues, fostering a proactive approach to relationship challenges before they escalate. By addressing concerns early on, couples can build lasting solutions and prevent recurring issues.

Enhanced Communication Skills

This form of therapy focuses on improving communication between partners, providing tools and strategies to express thoughts and feelings effectively. Strengthening communication lays the groundwork for a deeper understanding and connection between individuals.

Conflict Resolution and Stress Management

Proactive couples therapy equips couples with essential conflict resolution skills and stress management techniques. Learning how to navigate disagreements constructively helps build resilience, fostering a healthier and more harmonious relationship.

Building Emotional Intimacy

Through tailored exercises and discussions, proactive therapy enhances emotional intimacy between partners. By exploring vulnerabilities and shared experiences, couples can deepen their connection, fostering a stronger emotional bond.

Preparation for Life Transitions

Proactive couples therapy is beneficial for couples facing major life transitions, such as moving in together, starting a family, or navigating career changes. It provides a supportive space to address the challenges associated with these transitions and ensures that couples are better prepared for the journey ahead.

Building Emotional Intimacy

Through tailored exercises and discussions, proactive therapy enhances emotional intimacy between partners. By exploring vulnerabilities and shared experiences, couples can deepen their connection, fostering a stronger emotional bond.

Preparation for Life Transitions

Proactive couples therapy is beneficial for couples facing major life transitions, such as moving in together, starting a family, or navigating career changes. It provides a supportive space to address the challenges associated with these transitions and ensures that couples are better prepared for the journey ahead.

By addressing potential issues before they escalate, this therapeutic journey becomes a powerful investment in the resilience of your partnership. Gain insights, enhance your connection, and avoid ruptures or breakdowns in your relationship. Proactive steps today ensure a harmonious and enduring tomorrow.

Real Stories of Relationship Transformation

Real Stories of Relationship Transformation

Real Stories of
Relationship Transformation

Maha is an exceptional counsellor, and has helped our relationship immeasurably. She is extremely professional and we feel very comfortable discussing sensitive aspects of our relationship with her. She has an ability to pinpoint the precise issue we are dealing with in the moment and help us work through it. We would highly recommend her services to anyone.

-D. & S.S

Maha is an exceptional counsellor, and has helped our relationship immeasurably. She is extremely professional and we feel very comfortable discussing sensitive aspects of our relationship with her. She has an ability to pinpoint the precise issue we are dealing with in the moment and help us work through it. We would highly recommend her services to anyone.

-D. & S.S